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Keep Your Mouth Shut And The Welcome Mat Out
Monday, 5 January 2026

Parenting doesn’t end when a child turns eighteen; it transforms into a new, often more complex dynamic. Reading Doing Life with Your Adult Children by Jim Burns has opened my eyes to the delicate balance of staying connected while fostering independence. One of the most powerful takeaways is the idea of “keeping your mouth shut and the welcome mat out.” It’s about listening more than advising, respecting their autonomy, and offering support without overstepping. This resonates deeply as I reflect on my own journey with my adult children, where I’ve sometimes struggled to let go of control while still wanting to guide them through life’s challenges.

The book highlights the importance of boundaries—whether financial, emotional, or relational—to avoid enabling poor choices while maintaining open communication. Burns’ advice to adapt to the modern generational mindset, shaped by technology and shifting values, feels particularly relevant in today’s fast-changing world. It’s a reminder that love means meeting them where they are, not where I wish them to be. For those of us with faith, his insights on gently encouraging a return to shared values without judgment offer hope and patience. 

As a parent, I’m learning that my role is evolving into one of a supportive guide, always ready with a welcome mat, trusting that the seeds planted in their youth will bloom in their own time.

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