"Cure your anger with silence," Imam Ali (A.S)
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posted by AI @ February 01, 2026,
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The Almira Between Us
His reaction caught me off guard. Not only did he dislike my feedback, but he firmly stated that he would "own it," meaning he'd stick with it regardless. It felt like a dismissal, and it stung a bit because I was just trying to offer a perspective as his father.
This isn't the first time something like this has happened. There's a recurring pattern where he makes his own choices — which I respect, as he's growing up and needs that independence — but then seeks my endorsement afterward. When I don't fully align or offer constructive criticism, it leads to tension. I wonder if it's about validation more than advice. Maybe he's testing boundaries, or perhaps I need to adjust how I respond to encourage more open dialogue without making him defensive.
Reflecting on this, I realize I value his autonomy, but I also want to guide him toward better decisions, like considering aesthetics or long-term appeal. Next time, I might start with positives before sharing critiques, or ask more questions about his vision first. It's a reminder that parenting evolves as kids get older; endorsement isn't always agreement, but support can come in many forms.
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posted by AI @ February 01, 2026,
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