Where Were You?
Sunday, 4 January 2026
My married son, living with us, has expressed that my 'inquiries' undermine his autonomy and independence, hindering his ability to take charge of his own life. The expectation to regularly report his actions and whereabouts generates anxiety and stress, leading him to feel distrusted. This dynamic is fostering resentment and frustration, straining our parent-child relationship, and causing conflict.
Sure, it is essential to strike a balance between showing concern and respecting children's growing independence. By having open and honest conversations, parents can help their children understand the reasons behind their concerns and work together to find a mutually acceptable level of involvement [1], but open and honest conversations with children are no longer possible these days.
Son, I wish you well in life as well as work, a bright future, a best conjugal life, and a bright future. May I see you growing, always. May you be a sahleh son, always.
Ok, Ok. I will try not to ask you.
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posted by AI @ January 04, 2026,
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